Modern day man is confused about what it takes to be a man. And when a man is confused he cannot lead himself.
How? Well, the feeling of being lost first comes into place. The feeling that you really don’t know what to do, as society prepares you for something, but you want more than that, you want to become a real and authentic man!
You will then feel stuck and feel the need to break the chains. And that’s what you should do!
Set yourself free and become your ultimate self. Become your ultimate man!
Searching for external validation
I was an empty cup with holes at the bottom. Nothing was working.
I didn’t believe I was good enough until I had these external validations fulfilled.
I didn’t believe I was successful until I had a girlfriend, until I earned a six figure mark from my business for the first time, until I owned real estate properties and drove some of my dream cars.
After fulfilling all these external validations I started realizing that it’s not really the best way to find happiness. Or to fix the holes. They were just ways to pour more into my life, but the holes were still there, in the cup.
And yeah, I was starting to feel empty again.
I was looking outside of myself, in order to make me feel fulfilled and successful.
So my advice is the following: admit the stories you’re telling yourself, recognised the beliefs you hold on and what you are buying into.
All of these come down to your mindset, as well as how resilient you are – not physically, but mentally – to all traps within your mind.
Are you talking to yourself?
Start with mastering your mind so that you become able to have all the wealth that you want, in all areas of your life. However, if you don’t, you can end up becoming a victim of your mind. And you will end up finding ways to sabotage your wins.
You can call your mindset the floor for the rest of your life, the foundation, the core. Raise it and you can allow room for the other 7 pillars of your passion in life to grow up.
When it’s possible, continue reinforcing the resillent mindset for yourself and admit that on the other side of fear there is success. You can take yourself to a whole new level, but first, you need to learn to forge the mindset you want.